High School Student Engagement
Emily Merkle
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Senior Madi Parkhill got engaged
to her boyfriend of two plus years, Dezmond Brommel, on December 31, 2014.
Previously Parkhill had not given much thought on being engaged in high school
and said that it hadn’t really even crossed her mind.
“After falling in love with someone who chose the military, I was able to
change my view on other relationships,” said Parkhill. “Yet, I still do have
that crazy feeling of; whoa my life adventure starts now.”
With a dramatic life choice, some people may be supportive and others not
as much. Parkhill stated that she has surprisingly gotten lots of support.
“I hadn’t expected people to be as understanding as they have. Of course
there are always going to be people’s confusion and judgments, but they haven’t
really been expressed to me publicly.”
The people who are supportive of
her choice understand that her life doesn’t end because she chose to get
married, Parkhill explained. She sees
her engagement as an adventure away from high school, continuing through it all
with her best friend at her side.
Being a senior in high school also comes with a big decision on
furthering education. Parkill plans to move out to North Carolina where she
will attend classes at Coastal Carolina College and her fiancé will be back to
work in the Marine Corps.
After two years there, Parkhill says they plan to move back to Iowa to
finish her degree in Psychology and he to obtain a teaching degree.
Parkhill is only one of many
students to get engaged while still in high school and one of many more young
females that fall in love while in high school.
“My advice to other young females in love… love yourself first.
Understand your self-worth and never let anyone tear that down, especially your
partner… The best thing is to know that YOU are happy, and that your
relationship is healthy. No relationship is perfect, and no human being is
perfect. Learn to love and accept them,” said Parkhill.
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